• i like asians, browns and caucasians
  • a typical dude, average looks, can’t be younger than me
  • dark, short hair
  • a video/computer gamer, kind of a bum who likes to stay at home
  • good sense of humour. goofy, teaser, somewhat outgoing
  • interest in movies, television, music, general affairs – nice convo topics
  • nice smile =)
  • at least somewhat romantic – it’s the little things that really count
  • someone who wouldn’t ditch their buddies to spend all their time w/me and in turn, gives me space when i want it
  • literate…at least some form of proper grammar and sentence structure would be nice
  • a life plan of some sort
  • accepts me for who i am and what little i can offer

not relevant/important, but would be pretty awesome…

  • plays guitar or piano
  • some relationship experience, or at least knows how to act in situations
  • a car, or access to one
  • spontaneous. likes random or late night outings
  • doesn’t dress like a hobo or like a really geeky person
  • has mutual friends, or friends i can fit in and get along with

no thanks…

  • shy, sensitive, artsy types
  • deathly boring, socially awkward – someone who “sucks the life and fun out of you”
  • has disturbingly "close" relationship with sister (unless the sister likes me)
  • fobs and/or geeks, creepers and stalkers
  • stage 5 clingers who are insecure, paranoid, and obnoxiously jealous
  • a flirter, suave, ladies guy with only girl friends

indifferent to…

  • a typical guy acting like how a typical guy would – i’ve accepted their kind for what little they are lol
  • drinkers and smokers
  • weight and height
  • wealth, intellect, success, security
  • family/housing situation
  • past and past relationships

for those who think my expectations are too picky and i'll never find the guy i'm looking for - the truth is (as steve once said), when the right guy comes along - none of it will matter. Happy Valentine’s Day


One Comment

Lilian said...

oh the list... i wonder where mine went