i don't think very highly of myself. so when someone tries to get in contact with me, the first thing that comes to mind is not, "oh no, he's stalking me." i mean, come on.

so when i feel uncomfortable with someone, with good reason, i have the right to not get myself involved in that inevitably sticky situation. but instead of childishly running away from the issue, i faced it head on and made it clear that i was uncomfortable, why i was uncomfortable, the fact that there are no issues, and then i raised a white flag in the air and went on my own way.

i am done.

so why am i still being sent unnecessary messages that effectively act as threats, telling me to stay away and not remain in contact anymore? i am sorry, i did not even realize that i was the one trying to keep in contact, i thought i was doing the very OPPOSITE of that by severing things in a clear, honest, and up front manner. and i say they are unnecessary messages because contrary to popular belief, THERE ARE NO ISSUES and i DO NOT want to interfere with the lives of married people.

so i find myself being pulled in the very sticky mess which i was trying to avoid in the first place. maybe i should've just gone for the cowardly route and opted for ignoring the person until they gave up and gone away.